This is a rant--you have been warned

I do not understand the minds of some people.  If you are unhappy with the person you are married to, sleeping, with, or connected to why not just leave them?  If the relationship is not what you want or is not giving you what you think you need, get out of it.  Do not lie to the other person and to someone else you choose to involve without giving them the entire story.  

I do not care if you do not want to hurt the other person, or they are not able to handle you leaving or they are sick or whatever your pathetic excuse is..you hiding things is only doing them a terrible disservice.

***THIS IS WHERE THE LANGUAGE GETS NASTY FOLKS, IF YOU DON'T WANT TO READ IT LEAVE NOW****

But, if you insist on being an arrogant, stupid, moronic, asshole, and a complete fuckhead the least you can do is not drag other people into your horrible life.  Sit home and jack off all you want, hire a hooker who does not give a shit who you are or what you do, but do not take up the time of someone who deserves better than your childish games.  They are looking for someone who can love them and provide them with a trusting relationship.

Now, to be fair I have to speak to those who find out the one they are with is a lowlife, pigpen, disgusting motherfucker and stay because “they really love me, I know they do.”  Newsflash>>

THEY WILL PROBABLY NEVER CHANGE!!!!!

 And if you let yourself believe that then you are just as bad as they are.  Very seldom do tigers change their stripes.  You are in for a world of heartache and tears, do not come crying when it happens again and again and again and again (you finally getting the idea here?).  It will happen as long as you allow it to go on.  If you do not care enough about yourself (please, for goddess sake DO NOT have kids if you are this stupid) to get out then why should you think others will care?

Good magic vs. bad magic

To look at this topic, I feel you first have to find your definition of good and bad.  Let us define good as that which does not hurt anyone or remove his or her freewill and bad as that which goes against a person’s nature or causes injury of any sort.  I do have to say that I prefer not to even contemplate the kind of magic that is done with the specific purpose of hurting or even killing someone. 

If you ask is there such as thing as bad magic and use the definition above, then yes there is bad magic and it abounds.  Performing a love spell with someone specific in mind takes away freewill and I do not feel is the type of magic that should be done.  Anyone in his or her right mind would eventually start to wonder if the object of their affection really loved THEM or if it was a product of the spell.  

The spells that someone may perform in anger usually turn out to be bad.  Magic should be done with pure intentions and when a witch is angry, the mind thinks of all kinds of forms of retribution, most of which should not see the light of day.

I follow the Rede and always think of the consequences of what I send out..is it something I want to return to me three times as strong?  If not, then I file it under bad magic and leave it alone.

I gotta get back to it

I have been very lax since we moved here in practicing my religion.  I really need to start again and reconnect with the goddess.  So, I have resolved to plan on doing something for Lughnasad.  The one thing to consider is the bug population.  I would love to do this outside, but the bugs like me WAY too much, so I may be stuck inside somewhere.  I will have to see what comes to mind.

In the meantime, if anyone out there has any good non-chemical bug repellant recipes...I'm all for hearing them.

How can this be right?

OK, I am so ashamed to be part of the human race right now.  I know that our justice system demands that the accusing parties show reasonable doubt.  But, how on the goddess' green earth could any woman who has earned the name of Mom spend the THIRTY days that their beautiful little girl is missing by partying, boozing, and getting a tattoo?????

If you believe (and I seriously question the mental capacity of those who do) that this woman is guilty, then I have to think you think OJ is innocent and that Charles Manson is just the boy next-door.  I hope you enjoy your time in the Summerlands, as I believe you will be reincarnated as a cute little blond girl whose birth vessel will tape your mouth shut, put you in the trunk of her car, and dump your precious body in the woods for all kinds of animals to feast upon.